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Faith-Filled Summer Fun of Creating Joyful Moments in Marriage

  By Dr. Deborah Skomba Summer invites us to breathe again. It’s a season filled with light, laughter, and longer days—an opportunity not just to recharge, but to reconnect with the one we love. And while it’s easy to get ...

The Power of Pausing

  By Dr Deborah Skomba   If you're anything like the women I serve, you often carry the weight of everyone’s needs—while feeling guilty if you dare to rest. There’s always something that needs your attention, someone to care for, ...

Mid-Year Reset: Embracing Grace Over Guilt

  By Dr Deborah Skomba   As we reach the halfway point of the year, many women, just like you, begin to feel the weight of unmet goals, hurried lives, and hidden disappointment. But what if this moment is exactly ...

Embrace Your Story Because God Is Not Done Yet

  By Dr Deborah Skomba Welcome, Friend, Have you ever looked at parts of your story and wished you could tear those pages out? Maybe it’s a season you’re not proud of. A moment of heartbreak. A mistake you’d rather ...

Godly Influence vs. Worldly Influence: Who’s Leading Who?

  By Dr Deborah Skomba In today’s culture, everyone seems to be chasing the title of “influencer.” Social media has made it easy to gain followers, share opinions, and build a platform—but as people of faith, we need to ask ...

Encore Presentation: “What Do I Do When the Spark Fades?"

  By Dr Deborah Skomba Does it feel like the love in your marriage has gone cold? You’re not alone—and there is hope. In this encore presentation, we revisit one of the most common and heartbreaking questions Christian couples ask. If you've ...

Why Self-Care Isn’t Selfish: A Christian Perspective

  By Dr Deborah Skomba In the hustle of summer activities, family responsibilities, and the ever-growing to-do list, it's easy to feel like there's no time left for yourself. But here's the truth: taking care of yourself isn't selfish—it's biblical. ...

Are You Avoiding These 3 Questions To Keep The Peace?

  By Dr Deborah Skomba Do these sound familiar? Why do we keep talking at each other instead of with each other? How can we stop arguing in front of the children? When will we finally leave the past behind ...

Three Keys to Overcoming Obstacles in Marriage: What We Can Learn from Nehemiah

  By Dr Deborah Skomba Whether you're preparing for marriage or have been married for decades, obstacles will come. But they don’t have to break you—they can build you. Nehemiah wasn’t rebuilding just walls; he was restoring identity, purpose, and ...

What To Do When The Spark Fades

  By Dr Deborah Skomba Have you ever looked across the room at your spouse and thought, “How did we get here?” You’re under the same roof, but it feels like you’re miles apart. The truth is—emotional disconnection in marriage ...