By Dr Deborah Skomba Do these sound familiar? Why do we keep talking at each other instead of with each other? How can we stop arguing in front of the children? When will we finally leave the past behind ...
By Dr Deborah Skomba Whether you're preparing for marriage or have been married for decades, obstacles will come. But they don’t have to break you—they can build you. Nehemiah wasn’t rebuilding just walls; he was restoring identity, purpose, and ...
By Dr Deborah Skomba Have you ever looked across the room at your spouse and thought, “How did we get here?” You’re under the same roof, but it feels like you’re miles apart. The truth is—emotional disconnection in marriage ...
“An honest answer is like a kiss of friendship.” – Proverbs 24:26 (NLT) Marriage without trust is like a house without a foundation—it might look beautiful for a while, but it won’t last through the storms. Trust isn’t ...
By Dr Deborah Skomba You’re praying. You’re planning. You’re wondering if this relationship—this love—is ready for the next step. But somewhere deep down, you’re asking: Do we really have what it takes to make a marriage last? That ...
By Dr Deborah Skomba When couples begin preparing for marriage, they’re often told what to avoid: red flags, toxic traits, and behaviors that will lead to heartache. While this wisdom is important, it’s not the whole story. What ...
By Dr Deborah Skomba When we talk about preparing for marriage, most of the conversation tends to focus on problems—red flags, warning signs, and what not to ignore. And while those things matter deeply, there’s something just as ...
Marriage is one of the most beautiful and sacred commitments two people can make. But before the vows are spoken, there’s an important season that often gets overlooked: the time before the ring. This is the season where ...
When we think of love, most of us picture warm feelings, butterflies, romance, or even grand gestures from a Hallmark movie. But love isn’t just a feeling—it’s a choice. A powerful, often challenging, daily decision to put someone ...
Dear Friend, Let’s be honest—commitment sounds scary to a lot of people today. Whether it’s marriage, ministry, or even spiritual growth, we’ve become a culture that’s comfortable standing in the shallow end. But love—real, lasting, life-changing love—was never meant ...