10 Phrases That Harm Your Marriage and What to Say Instead
Words are powerful. They can build bridges of connection in marriage—or they can quietly tear them down. Many of us don’t realize how often the little phrases we use ...
The Unspoken Desires of a Wife - What She Really Needs but Rarely Says Out Loud
In my last blog, I shared about what husbands really need but rarely ask for. I hope it opened up some eye-opening ...
Beyond Happy Wife, Happy Life - What Husbands Really Need (And Rarely Say)
By Dr. Deborah Skomba We’ve all heard the phrase, “Happy wife, happy life.” It’s catchy, lighthearted, and often shared as advice for newlyweds. But let’s be honest: does this simple slogan really capture God’s vision for marriage? The truth ...
The Abundant Life for Your Marriage - How to Defeat the Thief and Live Fully in Christ
By Dr. Deborah Skomba “The thief’s purpose is to steal and kill and destroy. My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life.” John 10:10 (NLT) The Real Enemy of Marriage Marriages today face relentless attacks. The disagreements, ...
Faith-Filled Summer Fun of Creating Joyful Moments in Marriage
By Dr. Deborah Skomba Summer invites us to breathe again. It’s a season filled with light, laughter, and longer days—an opportunity not just to recharge, but to reconnect with the one we love. And while it’s easy to get ...
The Power of Pausing
By Dr Deborah Skomba If you're anything like the women I serve, you often carry the weight of everyone’s needs—while feeling guilty if you dare to rest. There’s always something that needs your attention, someone to care for, ...
Mid-Year Reset: Embracing Grace Over Guilt
By Dr Deborah Skomba As we reach the halfway point of the year, many women, just like you, begin to feel the weight of unmet goals, hurried lives, and hidden disappointment. But what if this moment is exactly ...
Embrace Your Story Because God Is Not Done Yet
By Dr Deborah Skomba Welcome, Friend, Have you ever looked at parts of your story and wished you could tear those pages out? Maybe it’s a season you’re not proud of. A moment of heartbreak. A mistake you’d rather ...
Godly Influence vs. Worldly Influence: Who’s Leading Who?
By Dr Deborah Skomba In today’s culture, everyone seems to be chasing the title of “influencer.” Social media has made it easy to gain followers, share opinions, and build a platform—but as people of faith, we need to ask ...
Encore Presentation: “What Do I Do When the Spark Fades?"
By Dr Deborah Skomba Does it feel like the love in your marriage has gone cold? You’re not alone—and there is hope. In this encore presentation, we revisit one of the most common and heartbreaking questions Christian couples ask. If you've ...