Spring is a season of renewal, fresh beginnings, and stepping into the new. Just as we set our clocks ahead to welcome longer days and more light, our marriages also need moments of adjustment and renewal.

But here’s the question—are we making the necessary shifts in our relationships to move forward in faith and love?

I want to share a personal story with you…

When God Shifted My Path

I remember when my career was all about plants and flowers. I dreamed of owning a greenhouse and florist shop, growing the most beautiful arrangements and sharing them with others. There was something holy about it—the scent of fresh earth, the way tiny seeds held so much promise, and the warmth of the sun, which carried healing with it.

But then… God led me in a different direction.

Instead of growing flowers, I found myself growing marriages—helping couples cultivate strong, Christ-centered relationships. And you know what I realized? A thriving marriage is a lot like a garden—it requires intentional care, renewal, and a willingness to embrace new seasons.

If we aren’t tending to it, weeds will take over. If we don’t nourish it, growth will slow. And if we aren’t open to God’s shifts and adjustments, we can find ourselves stuck in a season that was never meant to last forever.

Ecclesiastes 3:1 reminds us:
"There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens."

Just as spring is a time of new growth, it can also be a time of renewal in our marriages. But we have to be intentional about moving forward.

If you’ve been feeling disconnected, if past hurts have kept you from fully embracing joy with your spouse, or if life’s busyness has taken over, this is your invitation to spring ahead—together.

Spring-Ahead Tip: Let Go of the Weeds

Just as we clear out weeds in a garden to allow new life to grow, marriages need to be freed from the things that choke out love and intimacy.

Ask yourself:

  • Is there an old argument or misunderstanding I need to let go of?
  • Have we settled into bad habits that keep us from growing together?
  • Am I holding on to resentment or unforgiveness that’s preventing renewal?

Marriage requires weeding out the things that hinder growth and making room for something fresh to take root.

Spring-Ahead Strategy: Cultivate Growth Together

Instead of staying stuck in what was, take intentional steps toward what can be:

✅ Surrender what was – Let go of unmet expectations, past disappointments, and old wounds.
✅ Trust what is unfolding – God is working in your marriage, even if you don’t see it yet.
✅ Step forward in faith together – Take one step today: pray together, plan a date night, or hold hands more often.

Let’s move our clocks and marriages forward in faith, love, and renewal this spring.

What’s one small step you can take today to spring ahead in your marriage? Leave a comment below or message me—I’d love to hear from you!

Ready to Strengthen Your Marriage This Season?

If you want to deepen your connection with your spouse, my Better Marriage Prayer Journal is the perfect resource to help you focus on prayer, gratitude, and growing in faith together.

Inside, you’ll find:
✅ Daily scripture reflections for 31 days
✅ Thought-provoking journaling prompts
✅ Prayer guides to cover your marriage in faith
✅ Action steps to help you nurture love and renewal

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This spring, let’s not stay stuck in the past. Let’s spring ahead with God, embracing the new growth, the fresh beginnings, and the faith-filled journey ahead.

With joy and blessings,
Dr. Deborah