We Still Do
A Journey to Lasting Love in Christ
Ready to build the marriage you’ve always hoped for, one that grows stronger and more loving year after year?
If you’re still holding onto your “I do,” whether it’s been 1 year, 5 years, 10 years, or decades, this journey is for you.
Maybe you’re tired of the same arguments, the emotional distance, or feeling like roommates instead of best friends. You want more than a good marriage on paper, right? You want a Christ-centered marriage that brings peace to your home, strength to your family, and love that lasts through every season.
We Still Do gives you simple, faith-filled steps to help you reconnect, rebuild trust, communicate with grace, and reignite the spark without feeling overwhelmed.
You can do this. And you don’t have to do it alone.
It’s time to start building your better marriage one day at a time.
Renew your marriage with We Still Do: A Journey to Lasting Love in Christ is a faith-filled journey to help you build a shared vision rooted in Christ, aligned with your values, and lived out in everyday love.
Your Journey Is
Self-Paced
Experience a faith-filled journey that helps you navigate the ups and downs of marriage with grace and intention. You’ll get simple exercises, reflection prompts, and clear action steps to strengthen your relationship and grow closer to God and each other.
Christ-Centered Support
Rooted in Scripture and biblical wisdom, this journey helps you build a marriage grounded in faith, love, and peace. You’ll learn how to invite God into real life, especially the hard moments, so your marriage can honor Him.
A Clear Vision for Your Marriage
You’ll have a shared picture of what you’re building together with your values, goals, and the kind of home you want to create with a practical plan to move forward.
Deeper Connection + Better Communication
You’ll learn how to reconnect through honest, healthy conversations. You’ll practice listening with empathy, speaking with grace, and supporting each other through every season.
Renewed Hope
This journey is designed to help you breathe again. You’ll face what’s been hurting, rebuild what’s been missing, and move forward with fresh hope and a stronger footing.
This experience encourages healthy vulnerability and creates space to share your God-given dreams, define the life you want together, and feel more emotionally and spiritually connected, so you can truly live on the same page.
Truthfully, Many Marriages Need to Take a Breath and Find a Way Forward.
Do your recent conversations sound like this?
- “I feel like we’re drifting apart.”
- “I don’t feel valued.”
- “We don’t really talk anymore
- "Life is just too busy.”
“I did not think we were going to make it! Our 40th wedding anniversary came and went, no card … nothing. You told us we needed to plan and envision our future. So we took your workshop, where we created a vision to move forward in our marriage, made a plan and realized we included each other in it from the beginning. God’s vision for us was to get back to living on the same page! Today, we are living a life holding hands and using our marriage's vision as a guide and reminder of where we are going together.” - Carl and Linda
SOME MARRIAGES ARE EXPERIENCING
ROUGH DAYS. CAN YOU RELATE?
Don’t miss your chance to join this meaningful journey created with you in mind. We Still Do: A Journey to Lasting Love in Christ gives you a simple, faith-filled plan to help you reconnect, rebuild trust, and grow stronger through every season.
Here’s what clients shared when they realized they weren’t connecting like they used to and wanted to reignite the spark again:
"Deborah created a safe place for us to start a conversation about what was next before we became empty-nesters." Sarah and Mark, Professional parents of four, with the youngest graduating in two years.
- Do you wish you had more real time together, not just passing in the hallway?
- Do small issues turn into big arguments way too fast?
- Do you feel more like roommates or friends than husband and wife?
- Do you argue so much that you forget what you’re even fighting about?
- Do you miss feeling close, safe, and connected spiritually and emotionally?
Marriage is meant to be a safe place for a family. When the marriage feels shaky, everyone feels it, especially the children, who need peace, love, and stability at home.
But there is real hope. Creating a shared marriage vision and written commitments to your values, priorities, and “how we will love each other” can strengthen your bond now and guide you forward. When you focus on the legacy you want to leave, not just the problems of today, you invest in a future that can bless your family for generations.
Set your sights on this:
- Build a stronger connection
- Share your hopes and God-given dreams
- Strengthen what’s working and address what needs to change
- Create a simple plan you can follow together
THE 6 PILLARS OF "We Still Do, A Journey to Lasting Love in Christ"
BUILDING A STRONG FOUNDATION
INVESTING IN THE RELATIONSHIP FOR THE LONG TERM
FORGIVENESS AND GRACE
HEALING PAST HURTS AND REBUILDING TRUST
OVERCOMING CHALLENGES TOGETHER
DRAWING STRENGTH FROM EACH OTHER
NURTURING INTIMACY
CULTIVATING DEEP CONNECTION BEYOND THE PHYSICAL
COMMUNICATION IN MARRIAGE
EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION BASED ON BIBLICAL PRINCIPLES
EMBRACING GOD'S DESIGN FOR MARRIAGE
CELEBRATING THE BEAUTY OF COMMITMENT AND COVENANT
Welcome!
I’m Rev. Dr. Deborah Skomba, founder of Heart to Heart Ministry NJ, Inc.
I help faith-filled women and couples who are tired of the same pain, the same arguments, and the quiet loneliness that can happen even in marriage. My heart is to provide a safe, Christ-centered place where healing begins, and practical help brings real hope.
One of our foundational Scriptures is: “And I will give you a new heart, and I will put a new spirit in you...” (Ezekiel 36:26)
Through the H.E.A.R.T. Power Tools, Healing, Empathy, Authenticity, Reflection, and Trust, I help couples rebuild trust, improve communication, and move forward with peace and clarity.
With 42+ years of marriage and 15+ years of coaching and counseling others, I would be honored to walk with you as you build the marriage God designed.
Build a Christ-centered foundation for a love-filled, purpose-driven life together.
A stronger marriage is possible. Learn the simple, faith-filled keys that help love last.
How?
Here’s what another client had to say:
"Without the help we received through Deborah's program, we would have never had the direction we needed to get out of our rut!" - Mary and Joe, Professionals
When you create a shared vision for your marriage, you bring together your strengths, purpose, dreams, and hopes into a simple, step-by-step plan. This gives you something to come back to when life gets busy, helping you stay on the same page and keep your marriage strong.
This Was Designed With You in Mind!
You’ll Also Get
- Practical Tools for Real Life – simple exercises to improve communication, rebuild connection, and handle conflict with grace.
- Guided Reflection Prompts – questions that help you understand yourself, understand your spouse, and get on the same page.
- Clear Direction and Support – easy-to-follow guidance throughout the process, with 1:1 personalized coaching.
Don't settle for a mediocre marriage!
Core Values
We Believe
- Healing begins with forgiveness, which brings freedom to start living a life you love.
- Equipping begins with obtaining the right tools to move forward.
- Authenticity begins by living your purpose, revealing your true self, and pursuing your passion.
- Restoration begins with finding the courage to change yourself by bringing harmony to your body, soul, and spirit, and surrounding yourself with healthy relationships.
- Trusting in biblical truths, being a lifelong learner, and serving with a joyful heart.