Testimonials

“I was explaining to my girls how life coaching is different than counseling. It reminded me that time with you and the ladies in the group, Your sessions helped me to get unstuck and allowed me to piece together a more tangible action plan. Realizing I wanted to go back to work, I bought my own laptop right after the Life-Mapping class (later becoming “Embracing Your Story”). The journey also led me to enroll in computer training classes and then I began to apply for jobs. Essentially, you helped me to focus and set a plan in motion. I just want to say thank you. The work you are doing – it is so instrumental in this new season of my life.”

“Deborah's a highly sensitive and empathetic Counselor/Life Coach.

I attended a Seminar she did on Life-Mapping (later becoming “Embracing Your Story”), and it gave me a greater self-awareness. In addition to this, I received the tools to transform my life! Shortly after I lost my job and because of my recent self-awareness from Deborah's Life Mapping Program, I was able to begin a non-profit! I highly recommend her as a teacher, counselor, speaker and spiritual mentor!”

“Deborah and I have been friends for over a decade. I have walked beside her as a friend and confidant as she grew in her walk and ministry for all these years. Not only do I know her by the spirit I have had opportunity to see the fruit of her dedication in education and her obedience to the Lord. As her Pastoral Mentor, it is my desire to see her walk in the fullness of her calling as I continue to meet with her on a continual basis.”

“I believe premarital counseling is the best thing my husband and I could have done before we tied the knot. The entire experience with Deborah was exceptional and has made me feel more confident about my choice and what God has chosen for me in my husband.”

“I met Deborah at the low point of my life. Words seem inadequate to express my gratitude for what this wonderful counselor & coach has done for me. She helped me get through an impossible situation with grace. I was broken when I came to her. My pain was raw & hope seemed elusive. Deborah has a gift in knowing what to say to hurting people, as well as when to say it. Her discernment is matched by her compassion & kindness. She has a rare brand of wisdom & draws from a deep well of knowledge. I had previously counseled with 3 pastors, & 3 counselors – all good people, each qualified in their own right. None were able to give me the perspective that I needed, as Deborah did. I love the way she thinks, & how she is able to make me think. She is a rare find & I thank God for her. A healthier, happier, healed person is emerging from deep within the wounded frightened cast away I was. I am forever grateful.”

“Working with Coach Debbie Skomba has truly enriched my life and put me back on course to where God is calling me. Her empathetic ear and heart of encouragement really grasped my gaps so quickly to get me moving with confidence, clarity and a new momentum that has given me a new step up and out in life! I highly recommend her for your needed Breakthrough!”

“Deb Skomba! Where do I begin? Her HUGE HEART! She is utterly Amazing! Kind, Intuitive, an oh so WISE! Her program is most definitely full of truth and life. The way she gets people to open up and feel comfortable talking and discussing ways in which to improve upon their situations using sound biblical principles is nothing shy of beautiful. If you’re looking for someone to give it to you straight in love, Deb is definitely the one to connect with. She gives you the very best.”

“Great place with awesome skills . If you are looking for something great to help you in anything you need to keep moving you forward, this is the place. I totally recommend her.”

“Thank you so much for your counseling! It made me realize that I needed to change, not just my husband. I was tired of the constant bickering over small things every week, and after the recent attack from the enemy, I knew I needed to "pause." You helped me see things clearly and kept my mind focused!”

“I read your email this morning. It was just what I needed to hear. Life is one trust test after another it seems. But always blessed when I realize the area I unknowingly needed to let go of. It looks like you are doing so well with your books, and whoever you have had help you in this process. I plan to order one. Blessings to you for being a blessing to me.”

“I had originally wanted to attend the summit to watch a speaker I know very well however, I got so much out of the whole experience! Every woman who spoke, spoke to my heart and I was so filled by their wisdom and encouraging words. The Lord used that time to encourage me and build up my desire to be more.”

"Attending the Women's Summit was an empowering experience! The speakers were inspiring, the workshops were informative, and the networking opportunities were invaluable. I left feeling motivated and supported in my personal life and professional growth. Can't wait for next year's event!"

AKL

"Dr. Deborah Skomba has been patient, inspirational, and encouraging throughout my journey to obtain licensure as a Clinical Pastoral Counselor. I've encountered many set backs but she continued to nudge and support me. Thanks to her knowledge, and Godly insight I am always reminded that the race is not given to the swift but to those who endure to the end. Thank you for sharing with me your kindness and patience!"

Alice Delaney, Ph.D Director and Founder of Pathways Institute for Crisis Intervention and Education

Hi, I’m Rev. Dr. Deborah Skomba, founder of Heart to Heart Ministry NJ, Inc., a 501(c)(3) nonprofit ministry serving individuals, couples, and families. I help you build healthy relationships and strong, Christ-centered marriages—before and after “I do.”

Through biblical truth and practical tools, I walk alongside you as you grow, heal, and rebuild connection that lasts through every season of life.

As a Pastoral Counselor and Marriage Coach, I take an empathetic, strength-based approach and believe that when our thinking lines up with God’s truth, real-life change begins.

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FAQs

1. What makes your coaching different from traditional marriage counseling?

I combine biblical truth, strength-based coaching, and APS Temperament insights to help couples grow in faith, love, and lasting connection. It’s not just therapy—it’s transformation.

2. Do we have to be in crisis to work with you?

Not at all! Many couples come for premarital coaching, communication tools, or to reconnect after a busy season. Prevention is powerful.

3. Can one spouse come alone?

Yes. Even if your spouse isn’t ready, you can begin the process. Change in one heart can impact the whole marriage.

4. Is this faith-based?

Yes. Every session is rooted in biblical principles, prayer, and God’s design for marriage. I coach through the lens of truth, grace, and purpose.

5. What is the APS Temperament Profile and why is it used?

It’s a biblically based assessment that helps you understand your God-given temperament—how you relate, respond, and recharge. It brings clarity to communication, conflict, and connection.

6. Do you work with engaged or dating couples?

Absolutely. I offer pre-engagement and premarital coaching to help couples build a strong foundation before saying “I do.”

7. How long is your coaching program?

Programs vary, but most last 8 to 12 weeks, with options for 1:1 coaching, group sessions, and ongoing support.

8. Is everything confidential?

Yes. Your privacy and trust are essential. All sessions are handled with care, integrity, and discretion.

9. Do you offer virtual sessions?

Yes! Coaching is available online for individuals and couples across the U.S. It’s convenient and just as powerful.

10. How do I get started?

Click here to schedule a free 20-minute discovery call. Let’s talk, pray, and see if this is the right next step for you.