God's Design for Marriage

A Blueprint for Lasting Love in Christ

Exploring the core elements of a meaningful marriage

In a world where trends and values are always changing, the institution of marriage needs to remain a shining example of the power of love and commitment.

This book explores the heart of intimacy, uncovering the secrets to lasting love and strengthening your faith in the sacred covenant of marriage.

"Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?" Amos 3:3 NKJV

Why You Need This Blueprint for Marriage:

Discover God’s Purpose for Your Marriage

This book unveils God’s divine blueprint for marriage, helping you understand your relationship as part of His greater plan. By aligning your marriage with His design, you will experience deeper connection, greater fulfillment, and the joy of living out God's purpose together.

Strengthen Your Love with Christ at the Center

With Christ at the center, your marriage becomes a powerful testimony of His love. This book guides you to place Jesus at the heart of your relationship, transforming how you love, communicate, and grow together in faith.

Navigate Life’s Challenges with Confidence:

Every marriage faces struggles, but with God's design as your guide, you can overcome them with grace and strength. This book equips you with biblical wisdom and practical strategies to face challenges, restore harmony, and deepen your love through life's ups and downs.

Create a Legacy of Lasting Love

A Christ-centered marriage is a legacy for generations. This book shows you how to build a marriage that honors God, cultivates trust and respect, and leaves a lasting impact on your children, family, and community.

Transform Your Relationship into a Source of Strength and Joy

Whether you're newly married or have been together for years, this book offers inspiration and practical tools to refresh your relationship, reignite intimacy, and nurture a deeper, more loving connection rooted in God's unconditional love.

What’s Inside:

Prayers for Renewal and Healing: Special prayers for forgiveness, reconciliation, and God’s healing power, helping you break free from past hurts and build a new foundation of trust and grace.

Biblical Insights: Uncover the foundational principles of marriage as designed by God, from the creation of Adam and Eve to the wisdom found in Scripture for living out your roles in marriage..

Practical Exercises: Engage in thought-provoking activities that will challenge and inspire you to grow as a couple. These exercises will help you build trust, communication, and intimacy while aligning your marriage with God’s perfect blueprint.

Reflection Questions: Thoughtful questions throughout the book will help you reflect on your current relationship, identify areas for growth, and deepen your emotional and spiritual connection with your spouse.

Vision Planning: Learn how to create a vision for your marriage—a shared purpose and set of goals that will guide you toward lasting love and unity. This section will help you map out your future together, building a marriage that’s both meaningful and resilient.

A quote from the book:

"When you align your marriage with God’s design, you are building a foundation that not only lasts but thrives. It’s a love that transcends challenges, deepens with time, and reflects Christ’s unshakable commitment to His Church. This blueprint for marriage is not just about surviving together; it’s about flourishing together in faith, love, and unity."

The Benefits of "God's Design for Marriage"

  • Strengthens Your Marriage with Biblical Wisdom: This book provides timeless biblical principles that guide couples in building a Christ-centered marriage. It equips you with the wisdom and spiritual tools needed to deepen your relationship, resolve conflicts, and strengthen your bond with each other and with God.
  • Empowers Couples with Practical Tools: Through actionable exercises, reflection questions, and vision planning, this book offers practical steps to enhance communication, intimacy, and trust. It empowers couples to proactively nurture their relationship, ensuring long-term growth and happiness.
  • Nurture Spiritual and Emotional Growth: By focusing on faith-based practices like prayer, forgiveness, and shared goals, the book helps couples grow spiritually and emotionally together. It creates space for couples to align their marriage with God's purpose, strengthening their connection not only with each other but with God as the center of their relationship.
  • Creates a Lasting Legacy of Love: This book helps couples build a foundation that goes beyond their own relationship, enabling them to create a lasting legacy of love, faith, and commitment. By applying the principles within, couples can model Christ-like love for their children and future generations, leaving an impact that extends far beyond their marriage.
  • Guides Couples Through Life’s Seasons: Whether you're navigating the early years of marriage, adjusting to new seasons, or facing challenges, this book provides the guidance needed to adapt and thrive in every stage. It helps couples grow stronger through life's changes, keeping God at the center, and ensuring that their love and commitment remain steadfast no matter what life brings.

How to Use "A Blueprint for Lasting Love in Christ":

  • Read Together and Reflect: Start by reading each chapter together. Take your time to reflect on the biblical principles and real-life examples shared in the book. Use the reflection questions to spark meaningful conversations that help you better understand each other’s perspectives and experiences.
  • Engage in Practical Exercises: Each chapter includes practical exercises to strengthen communication, intimacy, and trust. These exercises should be done together, allowing both partners to actively participate in building a deeper connection. Set aside time regularly to work through these exercises and hold each other accountable for following through.
  • Create Your Marriage Vision: Use the vision planning section to create a shared blueprint for your future together. Discuss your goals, dreams, and desires for your marriage. This will provide clarity and direction as you move forward in your relationship, ensuring that you’re both aligned in your mission as a couple.
  • Pray and Seek God’s Guidance: Throughout the book, you’ll find prayers for renewal, forgiveness, and healing. Use these prayers together to invite God into your marriage, asking for His guidance, strength, and grace to overcome challenges and build a marriage that honors Him.
  • Revisit and Reassess: Marriage is an ongoing journey. Revisit the exercises, reflection questions, and vision plan periodically to reassess your growth and ensure you’re staying on course. As you continue to apply the principles from the book, you’ll see your relationship evolve and flourish.

This book is not just a one-time read—it’s a tool for continuous growth and transformation. Use it to build a stronger, more Christ-centered marriage that can withstand life’s challenges and thrive in God’s love.

Keep the spark alive

Starting your journey together with intentionality is key to building a strong, lasting marriage with a 20-minute Heart-to-Heart with Dr. Deborah.
This is your time. In this 20-minute session, we’ll have a real, grace-filled conversation about where you are in your marriage and what’s been weighing on your heart. Whether you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or just need a safe space to talk, this is your chance to gain clarity, encouragement, and Christ-centered guidance.

Together, we’ll uncover one small step you can take toward the change you want to see—because lasting transformation starts with a willing heart and a little faith.

About Me

Hi, I’m Dr. Deborah, a Christian Counselor and Coach with a passion for helping individuals and couples build Christ-centered, healthy, and strong marriages. With over 40 years of personal experience in a thriving marriage, I understand both the challenges and the joys that come with lifelong commitment.

I wrote "God's Design for Marriage" because I am deeply passionate about helping couples build strong, Christ-centered marriages that stand the test of time. Drawing from my personal and professional experiences along with biblical truths, I felt a calling to share the wisdom and practical guidance that aligns marriages with God’s divine blueprint.

My goal is to inspire couples to understand God’s purpose for marriage and embrace His design in their daily lives. I want to empower couples to grow together spiritually, emotionally, and relationally, creating lasting legacies of love and faith that reflect God’s love for them.

Through this book, I hope to equip readers with the tools to overcome challenges, deepen their connection, and honor God in their marriages.