Hi, I’m Rev. Dr. Deborah Skomba.
There was a time when I saw so many women and couples quietly hurting—loving each other, yet feeling stuck, disconnected, and unsure how to find their way back. I remember asking the Lord, “How can I help them heal?” That is when He led me to this Scripture that became the foundation of my calling: Isaiah 61:1–3, to bring good news to the hurting, to comfort those who are brokenhearted, and to give beauty for ashes.
That calling is what led me to create Heart to Heart Ministry NJ, Inc., a place where couples can slow down, feel safe, and begin again. Through the H.E.A.R.T. Power Tools, Healing, Empathy, Authenticity, Reflection, and Trust, I help others understand what is really happening in their relationship and give them simple, practical steps to rebuild trust, improve communication, and restore peace in their home.
With over 42 years of marriage and 15+ years of coaching and counseling, I do not just teach this; I have lived it. I would be honored to walk beside you as you heal, grow, and build the Christ-centered marriage God designed for you.
I enjoy exploring new places, reading, writing, long walks, and meaningful talks, especially on the beach. Above all, I love spending quality time with my husband, my adult married children, and my 5 beautiful grandsons. My story cannot be told without Jesus, and I count the many blessings of family and friends.