Biblical Love Checklist
Set Biblical Expectations for Love, Sex, and Commitment—God’s Way
Are You Ready to Love God’s Way—Fully,
Faithfully, and With Purpose?
Whether you’re single, dating, or married, the world offers confusing messages about love. But God has already given us the perfect foundation in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7.
The Biblical Love Checklist is a simple and powerful tool to help you reflect on what true, Christ-centered love looks like—and how to live it out every day.
What You’ll Find Inside:
13 Scripture-based reflection questions rooted in 1 Corinthians 13
A heart-check tool to help you grow in patience, kindness, and forgiveness
A flexible format you can use daily, weekly, or as a spiritual reset
Guidance for singles, engaged couples, and married partners
A practical way to examine and strengthen your relationship in light of God’s truth
Why You Need This Checklist:
- Because real love is more than emotion—it’s action, sacrifice, and daily commitment.
- Because God’s Word gives us a clear picture of how to love well.
- Because your relationship deserves to be rooted in something deeper than culture’s advice.
If you’re preparing for a relationship, nurturing your marriage, or simply seeking to grow in godly love, this checklist will help you set healthy expectations and stay aligned with God's design.
A Word from Dr. Deborah Skomba
This isn’t just another checklist—it’s a heart-level tool based on God's truth.
I've seen the difference it makes when couples and individuals align their love lives with Scripture. This is your first step toward clarity, healing, and connection—God’s way.
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Fill out the form below and gain instant access to the Biblical Love Checklist—a printable, Christ-centered guide to help you reflect, reset, and walk in love according to God’s Word.
Want to Go Deeper?
You’re invited to book a free 20-minute Heart-to-Heart Call with Dr. Deborah.
It’s a safe and encouraging space to talk, pray, and discover your next steps.
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Discover What Real Love Looks Like—God’s Way
Love Isn’t Just a Feeling—It’s a Daily Commitment Rooted in Truth
So many women and couples enter relationships hoping for real, lasting love—but without a clear foundation, even the strongest feelings can fade. The good news is that we don’t have to guess what love should look like. God has already shown us.
In 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, we find the most powerful, practical, and unshakable definition of love. This Biblical Love Checklist helps you turn that Scripture into action.
It’s not just for people in crisis—it’s for those who want to build, strengthen, and protect their love from the inside out.
This Free Resource Will Help You:
- Reflect on how love is showing up in your relationship
- Realign your expectations with God’s Word, not the world’s opinions
- Reset your heart when love feels confusing or one-sided
- Grow deeper in your understanding of Christ-like love
- Prepare for, or strengthen, a lasting and godly marriage
Who This Is For:
- Women seeking clarity in dating or engagement
- Couples who want to reconnect and recommit to loving God’s way
- Wives longing for more purpose, peace, and unity in their marriage
- Anyone who needs a fresh reminder of what biblical love truly means
This Checklist Will Challenge and Encourage You
You’ll walk through 13 questions based on Scripture that examine how you're loving and being loved—questions about patience, forgiveness, humility, trust, and perseverance.
Whether you use it during your quiet time, together with your spouse, or as a weekly spiritual check-in, this tool will draw you closer to God and each other.
About Dr. Deborah Skomba
As a Christian Counselor, Marriage Coach, and wife of over 40 years, I created this checklist because I know how easy it is to drift from God’s design when life gets busy or hard. I’ve seen the power of truth-filled love to heal what feels broken—and I want that same hope for you.
You don’t have to figure it all out alone. This checklist is just the beginning.
Get Your Free Checklist Now
Fill out the form below and get instant access to the Biblical Love Checklist.
Use it to realign your heart, reset your expectations, and rediscover what love truly looks like when God is at the center.
Want to Talk With Me Personally?
If this checklist stirs something in your heart, don’t keep it to yourself. You’re invited to book a free 20-minute Heart-to-Heart Call with me. It’s a no-pressure time to talk, pray, and take a step toward the love God desires for you.